A Sexual Email I Received...and What Coercion Looks Like

A Sexual Email I Received...and What Coercion Looks Like

Last week I received an email from someone I don’t know. It read: Hello, I have for a long long time loved to watch a Female Professional wear Closed Toe High Heel Pumps/Shoes while I Self Pleasure just looking at her but directly watching shoe play. I definitely prefer this over any other sex opportunity. I love asking to do this and would love to pay for a session…

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Take My "Sex & Vulnerability" Survey!

Take My "Sex & Vulnerability" Survey!

I could use your help if you're up for some sexual intimacy reflection?! For the summer of 2021, I launched an anonymous "Sex & Vulnerability" survey with 9 open-ended questions, to read in people's own words what is most vulnerable and real for them around sexual and emotional intimacy!

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How to Have the Sex Talk - Free Video Course for Parents

How to Have the Sex Talk - Free Video Course for Parents

Let’s Talk About Sex is a new 3-part video course for parents, that I created in collaboration with Planned Parenthood of the Pacific Southwest. “How do I not screw up my kid around sex?” “How can I do better than how my parents did?” “How can I handle difficult topics and help my teen feel comfortable talking to me?”

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Confident Humility for Optimal Sex - How Adam Grant's Mindset Also Helps in the Bedroom

Confident Humility for Optimal Sex - How Adam Grant's Mindset Also Helps in the Bedroom

Adam Grant’s concept of “confident humility” is totally relevant for sexual relationships too. Many short-term and pretty much all long-term sexual relationships will have concerns. This could include mismatched desire levels, differing sexual needs, varying communication styles, lack of sexual skills, undeveloped communication skills…

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Pausing to Look Closely - Mindful Connections in the Digital Era

Pausing to Look Closely - Mindful Connections in the Digital Era

I’m thrilled to have had the opportunity to collaborate with artists Marta Gorski and Alana Biffert who won an open call to exhibit their “CROMMAEA” work through the Pilchuck Glass School in Seattle. Their work is about body image, objectification, and female sexuality in our digital era, presented through a lens of vulnerability and mindfulness to challenge the viewer to pause and reflect….

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