New to Online Dating? My tips for San Diego Magazine...

New to Online Dating? My tips for San Diego Magazine...

I have talked to many folks over the years who have left a long-term relationship or marriage and are trying online dating for the first time. With the stress and changes in our lives due to the pandemic, it’s likely we’re going to see a noticeable uptick in divorces in the next year or so. I was interviewed for the February issue of San Diego Magazine…

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What do single people most want in dating in 2021? A Match.com study reveals

What do single people most want in dating in 2021? A Match.com study reveals

More than 1/3 of adults in the United States are single. What impact did the pandemic have on what single people are most looking for? And specifically, what factor do you think was stated to be the most desirable in a romantic partner? Good sex? Because there was so much less physical contact and fewer sexual encounters during the pandemic?

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Pausing to Look Closely - Mindful Connections in the Digital Era

Pausing to Look Closely - Mindful Connections in the Digital Era

I’m thrilled to have had the opportunity to collaborate with artists Marta Gorski and Alana Biffert who won an open call to exhibit their “CROMMAEA” work through the Pilchuck Glass School in Seattle. Their work is about body image, objectification, and female sexuality in our digital era, presented through a lens of vulnerability and mindfulness to challenge the viewer to pause and reflect….

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Old MacDonald Had a SEXY Farm!

Old MacDonald Had a SEXY Farm!

Oh, I had a lot of fun writing the lyrics to Old MacDonald Had a Sexy Farm and rehearsing it the past few months! And as you’ll see, I had trouble not laughing while I recorded this! If Old MacDonald had a sexy, sex-positive (and maybe even kinky) farm, what kinds of things might he have on his farm?!

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Creative Brain Podcast on Sexual Shame, Mindful Sex, & New Ways to Communicate

Creative Brain Podcast on Sexual Shame, Mindful Sex, & New Ways to Communicate

Haley is a former student and intern of mine, and it was a delight when she and her co-host Rachel interviewed me for their The Creative Brain Podcast! We dove into a lot of the topics in my book and specifically how much sexual expression, reducing sexual shame, and intimate communication skills are needed for Southern women in the Bible Belt.

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Your Intuition: Listening to It vs. Acting on It

Your Intuition: Listening to It vs. Acting on It

Have these thoughts ever gone through your mind or have you heard others say them? “I know I’m struggling with finances right now, but my intuition told me I should buy it.” “My intuition tells me those public health leaders are lying to us.” What is intuition?

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