Using blindfolds during sex? Ask Dr. Jenn

Using blindfolds during sex? Ask Dr. Jenn

Q: Why/how is her/him wearing a blindfold different from me wearing a blindfold? A: A: For the person who is wearing a blindfold, they are surrendering some power and control to their partner. While this can feel scary, it can also feel very arousing because they can’t see what is happening or what is coming next….

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What is great sex? Interview on the LUVBITES podcast

What is great sex? Interview on the LUVBITES podcast

I was recently a guest on the LUVBITES podcast with Dr. Tara, a professor and researcher on sexual communication. This is her description of our podcast topic: “The Question of the Century: What exactly is great sex? For episode #16, I chatted with Dr. Jenn Gunsaullus…”

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12 (Sexy) Days of Christmas -- A Parody

12 (Sexy) Days of Christmas -- A Parody

I love the holidays. And I love sexual humor. I also love being silly. This parody merges all 3 of those! It is my lyrics for the 12 (Sexy) Days of Christmas — you know, what the “true love” of the 12 Days of Christmas might give to a sexologist like me. ;)

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What do conversations about money and sex have in common in your relationship?

What do conversations about money and sex have in common in your relationship?

Do conversations in your relationship about money, and conversations about sex, have a similar uncomfortable vibe? This is common for many couples because there can be a lot of societal and personal fears and misunderstandings around these topics….

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What do single people most want in dating in 2021? A Match.com study reveals

What do single people most want in dating in 2021? A Match.com study reveals

More than 1/3 of adults in the United States are single. What impact did the pandemic have on what single people are most looking for? And specifically, what factor do you think was stated to be the most desirable in a romantic partner? Good sex? Because there was so much less physical contact and fewer sexual encounters during the pandemic?

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