What to Say or Do After Sex...and What NOT To!

What to Say or Do After Sex...and What NOT To!

What do most people say or do after sex? Is it sexy, or completely the opposite? Many times it’s really unsexy, and could lead to a strong disconnection. There's a funny hashtag on Twitter, #ThingsISayAfterSex, which offers some good examples of the unsexy things that people say ("Where's the remote?").

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Love Better in 2017

Love Better in 2017

We all want love -- more love, better love. But I think we often only think about bringing more love into our lives when it comes to a romantic relationship. In this segment on San Diego Living, I discuss the bigger picture around love...

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Better Self-Care for the New Year

Better Self-Care for the New Year

Although self-care matters all year long, the start of a new year can be a consistent time for us to check in and see how well we're taking care of ourselves. If you're a woman, you may have been specifically trained to put everyone else's needs first. And if you're constantly on the run...

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What makes you good at Sex? #AwkwardIsOK

What makes you good at Sex? #AwkwardIsOK

Wanna be a good lover? There are a lot of misconceptions around what it means to be good at sex...and perhaps some surprises around what it really takes. The lovely and funny Trudi of It's the TruStory interviewed me to dispel some myths about how you can be good at sex!

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Sexy Halloween Costumes: The Good, Bad, & Ugly

Sexy Halloween Costumes: The Good, Bad, & Ugly

Sigh, yes, it's that time of year again when almost anything you can think of is turned into a "sexy" version for the sale of Halloween costumes. Sexy Donald Trump? Sexy Hillary? Sexy Ronald McDonald, Ebola nurse, Smiling Pile of Poo! (I'm serious.) I discussed Sexy Halloween Costumes on San Diego Living....

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