I Don't Want Sex with My Partner/My Partner Doesn't Desire Me Anymore

I Don't Want Sex with My Partner/My Partner Doesn't Desire Me Anymore

What can you do if you don’t want sex with your partner anymore…but they still want sex? What does it mean if you’re not feeling desire anymore? Is sexual chemistry a real thing? In May 2020 the Consciousness Hacking meetup group in San Diego hosted me for a live Zoom “Ask the Expert” event…

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Guided Meditative & Mindful Masturbation Video for Women - with Erika Lust Films

Guided Meditative & Mindful Masturbation Video for Women - with Erika Lust Films

I was thrilled to be asked by Erika Lust Films, a feminist visual erotica company out of Barcelona, to create a video version of my Meditative & Mindful Masturbation for Women guided session. And since May is National Masturbation Month, I’m part of their focus on a month of self-pleasuring activities and education.

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Paper Magazine Interview - You Should All Be Practicing Masturbation Meditation

Paper Magazine Interview - You Should All Be Practicing Masturbation Meditation

With all of us dealing with a whole range of emotions and changes to our lives due to the coronavirus pandemic, I’ve been getting more interview requests around the topic of masturbation! I loved being able to take a deep dive into meditative masturbation through the lens of mindfulness and female sexual empowerment…

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How to Masturbate Even When You've Never Tried Before

How to Masturbate Even When You've Never Tried Before

If you’ve never touched yourself, or haven’t touched yourself since getting married or having kids, then we highly suggest you read ahead. "Our bodies grow, change, and shift over time, and masturbating can be a way of keeping in touch and staying acquainted with our bodies and our pleasure," says Jennifer Gunsaullus, Ph.D., sociologist and relationship and intimacy counselor in San Diego….

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Mindful Masturbation -- Moving from shame to joy & learning!

Mindful Masturbation -- Moving from shame to joy & learning!

Masturbation...is such a sticky topic in our society, especially for women. And mindful or meditative masturbation is an activity that is only about us -- taking care of ourselves, learning about our desires, giving ourselves comfort and pleasure, being sensually present and appreciative....

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