Dr. Jenn Gunsaullus, sociologist and sexologist, writes her sex advice and gender commentary blog. The sex blog includes relationship advice, free sex education videos, sex tips, sex-positive mindfulness, and podcast interviews.
If you notice changes in the following four categories of behavior then you might have a cheater on your hands. First, if they start taking care of their body and appearance more than usual. Going to the gym or working out in the garage, a new haircut or style, new clothes…
Read MoreA family law attorney agreed with my suggestions about how you can tell if your partner is cheating. We didn't overlap in our approaches to much else when it comes to infidelity, because let's face it, by the time you're scheduling with a lawyer, you may be past the point of counseling. Potential signs of cheating include sudden changes in behavior, spending extra time on the computer or texing, hiding one's phone or turning away from partner while on phone, or suddenly having passwords on phones or computers. Certainly there are other potential signs, but these are the ones that are most recent in the last 5 years or so with the increase in contact available through technology.
Watch the entire "Legally Speaking" episode on the topic of Cheating Spouses & Infidelity where lawyers Tina Willis and Stephan Futeral inteview Christopher Pearsall and myself. It's interesting to hear the law perspective on this topic (e.g., tracking devices on cars)!
~Dr. Jenn Gunsaullus -- San Diego Sexologist, Sexuality Speaker, Sociologist
Dr. Jenn is a sociologist and relationship & sexuality speaker who challenges our cultural beliefs around sex, sexual consent, gender roles, and health intimacy, with a mindfulness and compassionate approach. Her site includes a sex blog, free sex education videos, sexuality speaking information, and mindfulness resources.
