So, I finally got up the courage to shop for a sex toy. And then I was overwhelmed by the penis looking, brightly colored, battery operated endless choices.
So, does anyone have some advice or suggestions of sex toys you have purchased.
Toooooooooo many choices for me.
Overwhelmed with toy choices...
I've actually heard this a lot recently from women...they've been wanting to try out a toy for awhile but were embarrassed or scared, and now that they are actively seeking, they don't know how to wade through the maze...and a sticky and offensive maze it can be, at times.
There are some more reputable companies and manufacturers of sex toys, who take a woman's perspective, and really work to create products that are feminine, shaped to fit women's bodies, and not offensive in their appearance or packaging. I really like Lelo out of Sweden, and Fun Factory out of Germany, because they use high-quality materials, strong motors, and solid construction. Think about whether you want something specifically for clitoral stimulation, or also to use internally. That way you know if you want something small and compact, or something larger. While it can be overwhelming, it's also a fun adventure. Good luck exploring :)
Jennifer Gunsaullus, Ph.D.
Sexual Health Educator
www.drjennsden.com
www.zipzaptoys.com
When shopping in the
When shopping in the traditional sex store- I was overwhelmed by the hideous (women with fake boobs in lingerie??) packaging and the many crazy devices. While I have tried many-a-toy I would SERIOUSLY suggest anything from Lelo. The Nea is GREAT! I also have the Lily.
These toys are femme-friendly in both performance and appearance. They even have classy packaging- it's worth the money! They come with a one-year warranty and they charge in the wall- no batteries ever! It sucks when you're getting frisky and your toy needs fresh batteries!
While it may be tempting to skimp on your toy- trust me, I've done that- spend a few extra bucks and get the Nea or Lily- it won't dissapoint!