When with a partner, I feel the most important thing is to be with someone you can be open and honest with, to deepen the pleasure of the orgasm. No matter what it takes to get there, or stay there, it’s a shared experience, and I hope that I’d be with a man I can be honest with – you know, cry, fart, laugh, whatever. And when its really good, let him know he’s the best EVER.
On the subject of women faking orgasms, I think men could care less whether women fake it or not. Men ultimately want to just do the deed and get to the payoff. Been there, done that. If women want to have orgasms and they are not, they should do something about it. Tell the man you are with what works and what doesn't. Make him care about your orgasms! I happily take my time getting to the payoff when I know the woman I am with is truly being pleasured and wants to climax.
Orgasmic
When with a partner, I feel the most important thing is to be with someone you can be open and honest with, to deepen the pleasure of the orgasm. No matter what it takes to get there, or stay there, it’s a shared experience, and I hope that I’d be with a man I can be honest with – you know, cry, fart, laugh, whatever. And when its really good, let him know he’s the best EVER.
Men don't care. Make them!
On the subject of women faking orgasms, I think men could care less whether women fake it or not. Men ultimately want to just do the deed and get to the payoff. Been there, done that. If women want to have orgasms and they are not, they should do something about it. Tell the man you are with what works and what doesn't. Make him care about your orgasms! I happily take my time getting to the payoff when I know the woman I am with is truly being pleasured and wants to climax.
Magic Fingers